本文引用自kellyla1028 - 【6y1m】小露上學日記(19)。又是家長日
很喜歡凱莉哥的這篇文章
內容有一大段 非常重要
截取重點如下
老師引用了羅勃傅剛《生命中不可錯過的智慧》一書裡的某一個章節http://www.robertfulghum.com/
『所有我應該知道的事，都是在幼稚園裡學會的』
因為覺得實在太有道理
所以我在網路上找出了這一段文字
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ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN
「所有一切真正應該學的事，我早在幼稚園就學過了。」
All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school.
所有我生命中需要知道的事，包含有關如何生活、要做什麼事、以及如何生存的議題，我早在幼稚園就學過了，智慧不是在研究所那高高的山頂才會學到，而是存在那幼稚園的沙坑中。
These are the things I learned:
以下就是我在那裡學到的事情：
• Share everything.(與人分享)
• Play fair.(公平地玩)
• Don’t hit people.(不能打人)
• Put things back where you found them.(物歸原位)
• Clean up your own mess.(弄得亂七八糟的事得自己清理乾淨)
• Don’t take things that aren’t yours.(不亂拿不屬於你的東西)
• Say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody.(傷害到別人時要說對不起)
• Wash your hands before you eat.(吃東西前要洗手)
• Flush.(上完廁所記得沖馬桶)
• Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.(熱餅乾和冰牛奶對身體好處多多)
• Live a balanced life – learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.(過一個均衡的生活：每天都要花一點時間學習和思考，並且要塗鴉、繪畫、歌唱、跳舞、玩耍和工作)
• Take a nap every afternoon.(每天下午睡個午覺)
• When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.(當你走到外面這個世界時，要注意交通安全，與別人手牽手、肩併肩)
• Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.(記住：隨時要保持一點好奇心！記得觀察一下保利龍杯裡面的小種子，植物往上發芽、根卻往下長，沒人知道其中的道理，但我們都喜愛它。)
• Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup – they all die. So do we.(金魚、倉鼠、小白鼠….甚至連保利龍杯裡的小種子最終都會死去，人類也是。)
• And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned – the biggest word of all – LOOK.(還記得打開課本第一頁映入眼簾的大字嗎？那是我學會的第一個單字『看』！)
Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.
任何我們需要的知識都可以在哪兒找到，從黃金定律 — 己所不欲、勿施於人，到真愛、衛生、生態、政治、平權和理智的生活，無一不備。
Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all – the whole world – had cookies and milk at about 3 o’clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.
你可以挑出任何一項，然後用複雜成人語彙擴充解釋、運用在你的家庭生活、你的工作、你的政府或全世界，它們依然是清楚不變的道理。舉例而言，想像一個美麗 新世界 — 如果全世界在下午三點都停下來吃些餅乾和喝牛奶，然後靜心躺下來小睡片刻。或是全世界所有政府都能建立一個簡單政策 — 物歸原位和清理自己製造的垃圾。
And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.
還有一件事永遠是對的，不論你多老了，當你進入這個世界，最好的方法就是手牽手互相照應。
[Source: “ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN" by Robert Fulghum. See his web site at http://www.robertfulghum.com/ ]
以上截至網路
一直覺得凱莉哥很有想法
對孩子的"教養"也很有一套
她不是個 全能媽媽
甚至有點天
講不過小梨
或被小露照顧
但我覺得在樂觀這件事,她是滿分的
永遠充滿著戰鬥力,給孩子足夠的尊重
這是人最基本的
人如果不樂觀 擁有再多 都不會幸福
人如果不懂尊重人 , 永遠不會得到真正的友誼
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